Those who follow my blog understand I am engaged to a man whose views on certain subjects differ than my own. Well, he recently, in a joking manner said he wants to marry me, but I am already married to Germany. I shared my dream with him of living in Germany and he used it against me jokingly. In relationships it is important that you make wise decisions as it relates to your dreams. Never share your dreams with someone who cannot fathom you accomplishing your future goals.